So today I was with my boyfriend. I went into the bathroom and got my ring (right ring) on the counter (I take off my rings when I wash my hands) I do not know what I did. Now I was sitting watching television, and he sits next to me. He speaks of my left hand and joked, “Will you marry me?” I knew that this was not a real proposal b / c obviously it was a sound I already own and he did it in a pleasant way to go. However, to do what we think, because the joke? Was there a real meaning behind it, or was there a single Scherz.Wir for 3 years, btw.
Tags: Proposal
he was probably testing you
to see what your face would say
heck im going to do that too
i think he was most likely just joking.
Is this the first time he’s spoken about marriage?
He is jokester!
maybe he did it jokely to see how you would react, 3 years its time to get married.
Three years and he is still playing games with you. High time he married you if he really loves and respects you. Or is he still foooling you…..like why buy the cow when the milk is free.
Maybe he wanted to see what you would say, and he wants to ask you to marry you. good luck
I can’t really answer that because I don’t know him. I suggest that you take a step back and assess his personaltiy and decide if this comment is within his nature. Does he joke like that or is he serious most of the time. If you do that you will be able to tell if he would ask you in this manner, or if you’re thinking this way because that is what you want to hear.
even though he was joking maybe he was seeing what your reaction would be to see if you’d really wanna marry him…lol i dunno.
say yes (if you would say yes if it were a “real” proposal…and see what happens. Perhaps he was testing the waters. Maybe he was joking. Call it and see where it goes from there.
he probably just wanted to see ur reaction
Hummmm…I think he’s testing the waters to see what you would say. However, I must say, if I were you, I would be bummed…I mean it was YOUR ring he was using to pop the make-believe-question-for-now. Three years is a LONG time to be with someone without the relationship going to the next level (engagement), although I don’t know your ages so this may be a problem.
Perhaps your wanting this to go to the next level…am I right? Well maybe it’s time to talk to him about this…seems like this is what you might want next.
Good Luck sweetie.
3 years? he’s ready for some kinda commitment!! be happy girl…especially if he’s a keeper!! cause the minute u give him up..some hoe will be there to pick him up! fo’ real…but, if after 3 yrs. ur still ?? the relationship..give it a bit more time(bit meaning weeks, not months or years) or cut the ties!!
maybe he’s trying to impose something. he’s not entirely joking about it because if he was, that would be stupid that will risk him in getting into something that he wouldn’t want